Waiting in silence can feel uncomfortable, but you need to resist the urge to be the first to speak. Keep waiting. It usually isn't for nearly as long as it seems.
Silence means the other person is thinking about what you have just said. Whether they're considering an answer to a question you asked, or thinking about information you've shared, it's important to give them enough time and space to finish processing.
When I work with business owners on their selling technique, I find they often come close to 'talking themselves out of the sale' because they don't feel comfortable with the silence while waiting for the prospect to consider the deal. This is especially true just after saying the price - they almost feel compelled to justify or excuse it in some way!
The best piece of advice I've heard is to : "Say the price and then shut up!"
Another occasion when silence is a good tool to use is when faced with an angry customer (or anyone angry really!). They need to get the stuff that's making them angry off their chest so allow them to say everything they need to, and then remain silent for a further, slow, count of 5. This pause will enable the other person to add anything else, in case they hadn't completely finished. It will also show them that you have listened and are thinking about what they said.
I'd love to hear if you've found using silence to be powerful in your business. And if you enjoyed reading this post, be sure to re-tweet it so others can read it too!

